Condolence & Memory Journal

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When I think of Antoinette, I just smile. She had such an infectious smile, that I couldn't help but smile right along with her! She was so proud of her children, so present, so caring, and loving. I will never forget the many class parties, where she and I talked about fashion, our parents, our kids. She was a pleasure to work with on a Pelham Preservation fundraiser. We shared a love of travel and she was so encouraging about my travel writing. I will miss seeing her at various parties and events. I will miss her beautiful smile. May she rest in peace and rise in glory with terrific shoes on!

Posted by Cathie Arquilla Bricker - PELHAM MANOR, NY - Friend   April 05, 2021

On behalf of the administration, faculty and staff of Queens College, our heartfelt condolences to the family of Antoinette Iemma.

May she rest in peace.

Anna Rossini
Office of Alumni Relations

Posted by Anna Rossini - Flushing, NY - Friend   January 04, 2021

Our Deepest Sympathy to Joe, Joseph and Gianna
Happy Everlasting Life to A Beautiful Person and Angel
Love Always,
Marie Annette and Anthony

Posted by Marie Annette Simorella - Staten Island, NY   January 03, 2021

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My deepest condolences and heartfelt sympathy to the Viola and Iemma families. Antoinette was a sweet little girl growing up and became a beautiful woman with the gentlest soul. You will be greatly missed by many but never forgotten. Heaven has gained an Angel!

Posted by Madeline Muccio DiPietrantonio - Boiling Springs, SC - Family Friend   January 02, 2021

What a beautiful soul...left a positive mark in everyone she met. Never to be forgotten

Posted by Toni Kavanagh - Friend   January 02, 2021

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"Our deepest condolences to the entire family." Antoinette was a truly wonderful person that we were blessed to have known, always with a grand smile that was surely up-lifting. with love and prayers, Mr. & Mrs. Anna (Russo) and Anthony Baio

Posted by anna Baio - Bronx, NY - Friend   January 01, 2021

I knew "Toni" in high school. She had the best sense of humor-quiet but dry. I am so very sorry for your loss. She will be greatly missed.

Posted by Kate Lynch - Paramus, NJ - Acquaintance   January 01, 2021

Antoinette is an extraordinary woman. She had an incredible gift, in that, she could almost taste life! A classy woman, who was able to draw you in, effortlessly, by her warmth, love, wit and gratitude. She is a star, that will continue to shine, bright...in her children and all who had the gift of knowing her. My Piasano and dear friend, I will miss you terribly!



My condolences to the Viola and Iemma Family. May God wrap his loving arms around you and comfort you during this difficult time.

Posted by Aurora B Canale - Boston, MA - Friend   January 01, 2021

My deepest sympathies to Toni's family. I was her classmate in Preston HS. She was sweet and kind and so funny. Rest in peace Toni. May her family find comfort and strength from those that loved her.

Posted by Louise Iuliano Jacyszyn - NY - Classmate   December 31, 2020

Antoinette traveled the world as if she knew, something most of us will never do. She brilliantly shared her descriptions of sights, sounds and smells. A free spirit, fashionista, with a great sense of humor. God bless and keep safe Gianna and Joey. Love and condolences to Catherine, Dominic and family. Joe Viola and family. Thank you Antoinette for sharing Catherine with me.

Posted by Grace and Russ Attanasio - Glendale, AZ - Family Friend   December 31, 2020

Antoinette will always have a special place in our hearts. So sorry for your loss.

Posted by Arlene Michael Nicole and Danielle DiMarino - Family   December 30, 2020

I will miss you Antoinette. Your spirit and love of travel. Knowing you has been a gift .May you rest in peace.
With love
Natalie

Posted by Natalie Faggianelli - Tuckahoe, NY - Friend   December 30, 2020

We send our love for strength and healing to the entire family. We met through our school-aged kids and anytime we saw each other we would just click in a way that anyone who knew Antoinette would understand. She had a way of making you feel like talking to you in that moment was the most important thing in the world. This is such a rare, beautiful quality and only one of many that she shared with those who were blessed to know her. Antoinette’s fierce love for her children was unmatched.
Heaven certainly has gained a special spark of light.
The Cerbone Family
Lisa, Frankie, Ryan

Posted by A friend   December 30, 2020

Our deepest sympathy

Posted by Andy , Robin and Family DiMarino - Merrick, NY - Family   December 30, 2020

Dear Antonia, I will never forget our meeting and an open house, and our instant bond over textiles, fashion, and of course all things Italian. You because an instant friend to our family, and were beyond generous with your time and gifts for our girls. You patiently showed us every house on the market, multiple times, pepper with fun lunches at Villaggio. You led us to our dream home, and remained a part of our life long after the deal was sealed. Naji and I were shocked to hear of your passing, we wish that we could have shared just one more laugh together. Our deepest condolences to your beautiful family.
May you RIP.

Posted by Ariana Massouh - Pelham, NY - Friend   December 30, 2020

To my cousin Antoinette, Im going to miss you, we had a lot of fun and laughs growing up. rest in peace

Posted by joseph Del Vecchio - Family   December 30, 2020

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I had the honor of working with Antonette during a writing workshop in Cetera, Italy in 2007. I'm not a writer,
Antonette would say. She was a writer. She was one of the most beautiful and authentic writers I've ever had the honor to know. Antonette had so much energy and love for everyone. She will be forever missed and loved.

Posted by Patricia Dunn - Stamford, CT - Friend   December 30, 2020

I met Antoinette on my first trip to Italy. She was such a brilliant presence, a beautiful, stylish, funny, confident smart woman. I am so sorry for your loss, and all of our losses.
Riposa in pace e ascolta in gloria, cara Antonietta.

Posted by Rainy Horvath - Scarsdale, NY - Classmate   December 30, 2020

To my beloved cousin Antoinette,
You will be very missed by everyone and your wonderful soul will never be forgotten. Godspeed.
Love always, Cousin Al.

Posted by Al Del Vecchio - Family   December 30, 2020

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Very sad news, gone too soon, I will miss our conversations about life and the kids.
My condolences to the family specially her children and husband.
Lorena Kenny,Friend, Pelham Manor ,NY Dec 30st.

Posted by Lorena Kenny - Pelham Manor, NY - Friend   December 30, 2020

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Viola & Iemma family,
Our deepest sympathy. Your entire family
is in our thoughts & prayers. May
Antoinette Rest in Peace.
The DiLullo family

Posted by Angela DiLullo - Cuyahoga Falls, OH   December 30, 2020

Dear Antoinette, You, my cousin, my friend, and in many ways the sister I never had. I will always treasure the wonderful carefree youth, we spent together, The endless summer days lounging on the beach, soaking up the sun, riding our bikes around our neighborhoods, catching the eye, and the flattering comments of all the young guys driving by, the long drives in your electric blue Vega talking and laughing the whole time and who can forget dancing the night away,at the disco clubs. Those are the wonderful memories I am so grateful to have shared with you and will always hold dear to my heart. Rest easy my sister, and know that you have taken a piece of my heart with you forever. Love your cousin and friend, Angela.

Posted by Angela Del Vecchio - New York, NY   December 30, 2020

AA
I hear your voice and laughter, see your smile, and feel your warmth. You were a master storyteller, a true charmer, and a constant supporter. All of this (and much more) is forever with me and I know your distinctive spirit and effortless grace will always shine through Gianna and Joe.
Love you,
A

Posted by Alexandra Jonas - Family   December 30, 2020

It's difficult to put words to paper when someone is gone too soon. Antoinette was a beautiful soul. Warm, friendly, and always interested. While our relationship was based on our careers as realtors, it was always a genuine one. I will miss her fun sense of style and our conversations - which by no surprise - always turned back to our children and family...What a gentle soul. I can only pray for the consolation of her family and that her soul may Rest in Peace.

Posted by April Monaco - Pelham Manor, NY - Friend   December 29, 2020

So sad to hear of your passing. You had such a lust for life and all things Italian. Heartfelt condolences to your loved ones.

Posted by Barbara Arnold - Mount Vernon, NY - Coworker   December 29, 2020

My sincere condolences. We were classmates at PHS '75, and I will always remember her warmth, her sense of humor and her optimism. She was a wonderful classmate, and a genuine, giving soul. May the memories she leaves behind always be a comfort.

Posted by Vickie Federici Causa '75 - Carmel, NY - Classmate   December 29, 2020

Very sad to hear of my cousin Antoinette's passing. I have many fond memories of the times we got together. Condolences to Joe, Gianna, Joe, Dom and Catherine.

Posted by Peter Perrino    December 29, 2020

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Dunette - It seems like just yesterday that we met in the kitchen of my parent's home in Woodhaven. Me, standing there in my pink angora sweater, and you and Joe coming home from finishing a day at Queens College......a story that has been retold many times for well over 40 years. But no one tells it like you.....just like every story or incident you share.....with just the right amount of embellishment and jargon to capture an audience. You will be greatly missed by all who know and love you,

Posted by Linda Viola-Jonas - East Williston, NY - Family   December 29, 2020

When I opened my Antique store in Pelham, you were my first customer. Joe was a baby and we would sit and talk for hours. We became instant friends. I will miss our talks my dear friend. I will miss your beautiful smile and your heartfelt soul. You will forever hold a special place in my heart.

Posted by Joyce Carroll - Pelham, NY - Friend   December 29, 2020

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You will be greatly missed, i loved you like a sister

Posted by ANN MARIE DIGIACOMO - Yonkers, NY - Coworker   December 29, 2020

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Always a warm smile and a fantastic outfit..texting me in italian and supporting all things she loved...so leaving a huge hole on this planet!

Posted by margo desantis - New Rochelle, NY - Friend   December 29, 2020

My Antonia you were like my big sister helping me navigate everything from piano lessons, mr Becks auditions, pelham children's theater too and that's just the kids stuff. I could always count on a daily call with the Pelham scuttlebutt. We made each other laugh with our Preston Girl Bronx humor. you are one of a kind and I will forever carry you in my heart.

Posted by Francine Varricchio - Pelham, NY - Friend   December 29, 2020

My God give you strength and comfort during this saddest of times.

Posted by Camille Basile - Patchogue, NY - Family Friend   December 28, 2020

The world has lost a beautiful soul. My condolences to her family. May she rest in peace.

Posted by Camille Basile - Patchogue, NY - Family Friend   December 28, 2020

Viola & Iemma family: So very sorry for the passing of Antoinette. Your family is in our thoughts & prayers. May Antoinette Rest In Peace.
DiLullo family

Posted by Angela DiLullo - Cuyahoga Falls, OH   December 28, 2020

My Love to AYMhand prayer's for you all, Gianna,Joe,Joesph,Catherine and
Dominic.
I'll Miss my dear friend and 'sister'.
May her Precious Soul Rest In Peace.

Posted by Louise CAESAR - BALDWIN, NY - Friend   December 28, 2020

Our deepest condolences. RIP Antoinette. ❤

Posted by Rosa Eduardo - Anthem, AZ - Spouse   December 28, 2020

So saddened by the loss of a very delightful signora. Will miss you dearly.
Our deepest condolences to Gianna, Joe and Family.

Posted by Frank and Maria Cipollone - Naples, FL - Family   December 28, 2020

I am deeply saddened to hear of this tremendous loss. Antoinette's smile and enthusiasm and joy for her kids, and the arts, and just life in general was infectious every time I had the great fortune to see her. Her smile always made me smile. But I know that she has passed that joy for living on to Gianna and Joe, and it brings me comfort to know that her passion for life will continue in them.

All my love and prayers are with you all as you heal and mourn for Antoinette. She will be missed.

Sincerely,
Courtney Kiessling

Posted by Courtney Kiessling - Pelham, NY - Family Friend   December 28, 2020

Deepest condolences during your time of sorrow.

Posted by Louise Varricchio - New Rochelle, NY - Friend   December 28, 2020